STOP

Dear Jessica -

Why are you crying over someone who clearly does not want to be with you? Why are you crying over someone who doesn't want to talk to you or contact you? Why are you crying over someone who doesn't want to have sex with you or touch you? Why are you crying over something you have absolutely no control over? Why are you wasting time mourning and blubbering around when you could be working, making money, and bettering yourself and your lifestyle? Why are you giving someone that kind of control over you? Why did you stop caring about yourself? Why can you not see how lovable you are? Why are you choosing to suffer just because you are in pain?

STOP IT! RIGHT NOW! I MEAN IT! No one is worth this time and energy from you right now. No one deserves your tears when they don't shed one for you. No one has your back right now, but you. Suck it up, girl! YOU are not confused. You know exactly what you want out of life and love. Go work on getting that instead of focusing on a lost cause. Stop beating yourself up for something that is NOT YOUR FAULT!

You get 10 minutes a day to cry. That is it. Other than those 10 minutes (which is entirely too much anyway), you should be doing something productive and positive. You have met your 10-minute quota for the day and it is not even 2 p.m. Get the fuck up. Take a shower. Get dressed. Go to the grocery store. Work your ass off. Get some good sleep. STOP FUCKING WALLOWING. It is counterproductive.

Love,
Your Inner Warrior